Throw Away the Man Checklist

Throw Away the Man Checklist

Powerful in Love Series: Part 8

(Click here to read Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4Part 5, Part 6 and Part 7)

 

Stop playing small.
Your man is SO much more than that checklist you wrote at that “Manifest your King” workshop last spring.
Throw it away.
Burn it.
Shred it.

Everything you THINK you want in a man is what your HEAD thinks you need.
Everything you ACTUALLY want in your man is how your BODY responds.

So start off by throwing that shit out.

Then, get working on connecting to your body.

Because if you can’t understand her “yes”es and her “no”s, you will never know when you’re sitting in front of “THE ONE”

Because your head is going to be scanning for everything that isn’t on the list.
Because your ego is going to be so much louder than your body’s cues
And you’ll say NO to a second date.

And then he’s gone.

I’m opening up my private coaching practice to 3 visionary CEOs/leaders who are powerful AF in their business and are ready to do the same in their love life.⁠

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Do You Secretly Judge Men?

Do You Secretly Judge Men?

Powerful in Love Series: Part 7

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Are you already annoyed when you are saying yes to a date with them?
Stop it.
Are you managing the entire date when you’re on it?
Stop it.
Are you nitpicking at every detail as you sit in front of him?
Stop it.

You’re constantly complaining about no “conscious men” out there.
Well, let me ask you…
Are you being conscious when you are nitpicking and judging and assuming?
And then managing and leading and taking up space?

Nope.

So stop it.

Stop blocking the possibility of a good man.

I’m sorry to break it to you but the best s*x in your life is probably NOT gonna be with the hot guy with the 6 pack. 

And your man probably doesn’t fit your checklist of criteria.

I’m opening up my private coaching practice to 3 visionary CEOs/leaders who are powerful AF in their business and are ready to do the same in their love life.⁠

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(Click here to read Part 8)

A true Queen doesn’t need to assert herself

A true Queen doesn’t need to assert herself

Powerful in Love Series: Part 6

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She doesn’t need to lean in.
She doesn’t need to take up the whole room with her opinions.
She doesn’t need to search outside of herself for what she wants.

She has taken the time to slow down and drop in,
To lean into herself,
To see the world through her body,
And to find what she needs within.

And then she walks in with a secret in her belly and a twinkle in her eye.
Because she knows her own magic,
She knows the irresistible power of her nectar.
She knows what’s possible when he truly feels her.
She knows the moment he tastes her, he will want more and more and more.

But to get to this place, she must traverse mountains in her inner landscape.
She must take the Heroine’s Journey of slaying her inner Demons.
She must travel the road less taken, the road of the body,
She must go into the hidden hills and valleys of her own curves and love them back to life,

Your King doesn’t care what you’re wearing or how much money your last launch made.
He wants to feel your pleasure oozing from every pore, nourishing him.

So stop walking into a room with declarations and opinions that take up so much space,
Let your body talk.
Let your heart open.
Let your exhale be the potion that draws them in quietly.

Be the Siren.
Be the Enchantress.
Be the Queen.

I’m opening up my private coaching practice to 3 visionary CEOs/leaders who are powerful AF in their business and are ready to do the same in their love life.⁠ Let me help you find the Queen within.

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(Click here to read Part 7 and Part 8)

Stop Trying To Take Up Space

Stop Trying To Take Up Space

Powerful in Love Series: Part 5

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I’m so tired of feminist and womxn’s empowerment spaces talk about “taking up more space” and “being even louder” and bigger and bolder. ⁠

This rhetoric is killing your love life.

These same womxn are often the ones who are also deeply yearning for love and seem stuck on how to receive it.⁠

You have to ask yourself: “Are you loving the space or dictating the space?”⁠
“Are you embellishing the space or commanding the space?”⁠
“Are you injecting life force into the space or using life force in the space?”⁠

There are many ways to “take up space”. And we’ve only been taught one version. The Alpha version.⁠

There’s nothing wrong with you walking into a space like you own it. But it’s not going to get you “a conscious man”.⁠

It may get you lots of money. Lots of recognition. Lots of “Power”.
But not a man.⁠

At least not the type of man I hear my clients wanting…
“a man who can meet me in his consciousness” or ⁠
“a man who can hold all of me in his presence”, ⁠
“a man who will fucking lead already!”.⁠

If you want a man who leads with presence, clarity and consciousness (alpha traits), you cannot out Alpha him.⁠
If you want a man who will command and direct and lead, you cannot out Alpha him.⁠
If you want a man who is your rock, you cannot out Alpha him.⁠

Think about it. ⁠

If you are taking up all the space, what’s left? ⁠

Not much. ⁠

That’s the version of man you’ll be going on a date with.⁠

I’m not here to put you in a box, womxn. Not at all. ⁠
Alpha all you want in all the places.⁠

But if you walk into a room with your CEO hat on, you will not be met by the man you’re wanting.⁠

I’m not here to disempower you. I’m here to EMPOWER you. ⁠
I understand how hard you fought for this. I understand how hard we ALL fought for this. ⁠

But power is nuanced.

I’m here to remind you of a universal law of polarity. If you want a partner who is more alpha/masculine, you must play in your omega/feminine.

I’m not suggesting you have to hang out here all day long, but this is a muscle you must learn to cultivate. And most womxn who come to me just cannot find THE DIAL.

THE DIAL is your liberation, womxn.

If you masterfully learn how to dance with the dial of your natural alpha and omega energies…
If you cultivate the energetics that swirl within your body…
If you learn how to bring down the volume of your Alpha and up the volume on your Omega/feminine, you will find yourself artful in relating, instead of arduous. 

No one taught us this. 

But it’s never too late. 

Access a new type of Power.
One that magnetizes.
One that feels deeply.
One that loves and attracts love.

I’m opening up my private coaching practice to 3 visionary CEOs/leaders who are powerful AF in their business and are ready to do the same in their love life. Let me show you how to turn your dial!

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(Click here to read Part 6Part 7 and Part 8)

Be THAT Womxn

Be THAT Womxn

Powerful in Love Series: Part 4

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I know what you’re thinking….⁠

“I don’t know that I could ever be as embodied as HER.”⁠
“Of course the men flock to HER.”⁠
“Even if I do all the things, I’m not sure I will ever be as attractive as HER.”⁠

⁠Absolute BS! 

I’ve been witnessing womxn dance their way into their authentic expression for close to 15 years and let me tell you…⁠

There is nothing more embodied, attractive and EARTH-SHATTERING, JAW-DROPPINGLY GORGEOUS than a womxn expressing the truth of her heart THROUGH her body. Nothing.⁠

You know the feeling you get when you watch a sunset? You know how each one is unique and each one takes your breath away in her own way?⁠

That is what Omega/the Feminine inspires in all of us.⁠

Pure enthralling, mouth-watering HOLY F*CK that’s delicious give me more-ness.

It can feel hard to access when we’ve been operating in a man’s world and have no clue how to juice ourselves up again.
When we need help opening a Pandora’s box of ALL our unfelt emotions.⁠

That’s what I do best. Guide you through cleansing, cleaning and finding home within. ⁠

Finding the Enchantress, ⁠
the Siren, ⁠
the Mother, ⁠
the Warrior Queen, ⁠
the Playful Pixie ⁠
and all the other flavors of you. ⁠

So that every time you walk into a room, the heads inevitably turn to you as they would to the most jaw-dropping sunset ever seen.

I’ve opened up my private coaching practice to 3 visionary CEOs/leaders who are powerful AF in their business and are ready to do the same in their love life.

Click here to book an exploration session.

 

(Click here to read Part 5, Part 6, Part 7 and Part 8)