Ever wonder that?
Sometimes, no matter how much you try to connect to your “sexy”, you simply feel unattractive, uninspired and “meh”.
This is because you are searching for your sexy in the wrong places!
You think it might be in the heels or the lipstick or the sexy nurse outfit…
You look for it in the bump n’ grind R&B music or in a twerk shop…
You think maybe a candle-lit dinner with your boo might be the trick…
Or if you’re single, then “getting yourself out there” will do the trick…
Or maybe you just need to get away from the kids for a weekend.
And yet, no matter what you do, you still feel just BLAH.
You may find yourself hating and focusing on all the things that aren’t “right” before a date…
Or you may still find yourself thinking about what you need to pick up from the grocery store while your partner kisses you,
Or you might find yourself shoo-ing them away even though your heart’s deepest desire is actually to deeply connect with them.
This is because you have not found your SENSUAL SIREN.
She is the essence of your erotic, sensual, feminine charge.
She is the archetype in your internal army that helps fight the message that our sensual is unsafe.
She is the champion of your pleasure and the creatrix of your turn-on!
Once you have found her, connected with her and explored her desires, you will know exactly what you need to PLUG YOU IN to your DEEPEST, MOST HEARTFELT TURN-ON.
For some of us that looks like wearing a t-shirt and legwarmers.
For some of us that IS a little black dress with the heels.
For some of us that looks like a cape. Or a tutu. Or bondage-inspired accessories.
For some of us that means raging to rock music or lusciously luxuriating to Sade.
For some of us that means tapping into our playful and for some of us that means connecting to the deep well of emotion in our bodies.
It looks different for everyone.
But what’s the same is the way in which you get to meet her and connect to her – through embodiment, through your senses.
Through touch.
Through sound.
Through colors.
Through textures.
Through music.
Through scent.
Through taste.
If you follow the breadcrumbs there, that’s how you will begin to find the safety in your sensuality and through that you can show up vibrant and connected to your desires without the guilt, shame, and fear that has us dissociate or disconnect and without the preconceived notions of what we are supposed to look or feel like when we are tapped into our sexy.
What will YOU do today to start to connect to your Sensual Siren?
P.S. Embody Teacher Training is accepting applications for another week. If you’re wanting to explore your Sensual Siren and the other archetypes in Embody while training to facilitate this experience at YOUR workshops & retreats, you can apply HERE.